I feel like We have a Great chance here since I am in no way rude, judgmental or self centered. HAHAHA.. My must haves? Understanding, Patient, Caring and Honest and not haves? Self-centered and one does not put other people's feeling to heart. Personally I have always felt that, what makes 2 people strong is the ability for them to always be by each other through thick and thin and not having circumstances or outsiders run their affairs!! which is a very big turn-off for me.