The family is the first institution to teach the children grow into adults. which each family will have to teach the different. By raising the family's influence on the growth of children and when children grow up, will have a different behaviour. For example, Families that show love, the mutual assistance between parents and children. When a child has a problem, parents are consulting. These children will grow into good adults and no violence to others. Unlike the families with problems such as divorced parents, use violence to solve problems. When children grow up, will the adults who use violence. Which the offender will be punished according to the law.