Also, Sungmin was not really considerate when he was pushing forward his marriage plan. I assume everyone knows the family tragedy that happened to Leeteuk this January. And yet, Sungmin started talking about his marriage late winter/early spring and brought this up to Leeteuk who was still serving in the military after the tragedy. Some say Sungmin wrote a letter to him and others say he visited Leeteuk (source: members’ parents). I don’t know which is true, but both behaviors are simply mean and selfish. To Korean men, military service brings a huge change in their lives. Whatever they were doing in the past (student, idol star, or whatever), they have to take a break of about 2 years. Regardless of their love for the country and willingness to fulfill the responsibility as a citizen, it’s a time of uncertainty and anxiety for them. (If you still don’t understand how Korean men would feel during military service, check out Yesung’s SNS.) In the army you can’t contact others freely, let alone making phone calls. (Yesung is doing public service, which is an alternative to military service and that’s why he can use SNS.) When the leader was going through such a hard time and couldn’t take care of things properly, how can Sungmin drop the bomb like that?