Dear , I was very deeply in love with my late wife. when I lost her, I decided I will not have any relationship or date for 2 years to mourn her, and then after the 2 years I was still keeping myself that way. Not even shaving my hairs. And it was my pastor who called me recently and started talking to me to get married. And I looked at my small child who always asks me to get married because he needs a mom, then I decided to join this site... But since then, I have not met any body who matches my spirit. My instinct have never deceived me. So I follow my spirit. I am a Good man, and I need a Good woman... I need someone who will like me for who I am and not for what I have..