I think you try to get in touch with your emotions and flush out any problems. If you're mad at each other, why? Being a married couple can be complicated, and you need to understand how your relationship works, and what problems you have. It's normal to have different personalities, but it's important to talk to each other and keep talking to each other so that the good things in your relationship don't fall by the wayside. You need to learn strategies to help your marriage survive. Coming to therapy like this is a very good start, but you need to make changes to your daily lives. Have fun together, give each other presents. These are the things that can make a marriage work.