The male dominant reading would be that Ted is a good man who works hard at his job and sees his family as respectable. He would also seem to love Grace and care about her and their children. They would also see that it was right for Ted to question how hard Grace worked at home and where she got the money for the lottery ticket. Their feelings towards Grace would be that she was selfish for leaving her kids with Ted and taking the money for herself as a mother is seen to always taking care of her children. They would also be angry that Grace didn’t give any warning and just took off.