The Not-Just-Yet-Hookup: You’ve hung out with someone once or twice with friends, and wound up spending time alone both times. Now you’re hanging out alone in a private space for the first time, some enjoyable making out is afoot, and it seems pretty likely one or both of you are going to initiate something more sexual. That’d be just fine by you, but you want to be sure things don’t get too heavy, too fast.