Originally, the family we have 9 people contains. Parents and grandparents and we 5 people. what makes a mother become the leader of the family caused by my father suffer car accidents cause people died since the age of three years, And in a few years, my grandfather died. I have two sister and two brother and people who I am is the fourth child of the mother.After my father died. mother must work hard to take care of all seven family members, including the mother's own. The images I saw until the familiar since I was a child, is also the mother to wake every day from early morning to prepare food for the family members and prepare the opening of the building materials. Which is a business within the family, she had to work between the hours of 8.30 am to 17.30 pm, every day, to bring the money that fed us all five siblings, learned books. I've asked the mother whether "Mother tired to work every day? Mom wanted to go where?" Mother said to me, "do not feel tired." bring along her hand to pat my head and smiled at me