People will always view your foreigner partner according to their own perspective
To add on to the last point, people will always view the foreigner in a relationship according to their own understanding and well, stereotype.
I’ve no idea how many people have curtly asked, “How is your Thai girl?” as if she’s some commodity.
I always simply reply, “She’s not my Thai girl. She’s my girlfriend.” And even that reply alone is shocking to some, evoking a, “Haha please lah, dude.”
However, I find that it’s something common around here, that’s why girls dating white dudes are called Sarong Party Girls. I personally know of Chinese girls here who are dating Indian guys and their family cannot accept it.
It is indeed condescending, but you can’t let the ignorant faze you. Doing so would only be a waste of time and energy.
I’m not about to challenge the status quo on how we view certain foreigners. It’s just how it is. It’s sad. It’s even sadder to see how people react when their own beliefs are challenged.
But whatever. If you’re spending too much time poking your nose in others’ relationships, especially when you’re sad, lonely and worrying over nonsense like if she thinks you’re stalker just because you “Liked” her photo, it’s time to look in the mirror.