I understand. And a lot of ppl have that tradition here too. But it is very common to explore before marriage, and then only be faithful to your husband or wife when married. I think the idea is that way you are less likely to cheat, because you already know what it is like outside of the person you marry. Like me: if I had waited until wedding, I would always wonder what other girls are like. Now I know it is not as important as the person you choose