4. Get specific with the music. Music is an even bigger deal at a reverse wedding than a traditional one, especially since a moment of dead air could kill the party vibe. Keep your music curated but also transitional throughout the evening. Lounge-y tunes during the arrivals facilitates conversation and can be increased in energy while the food part of the night starts. From there everyone should be ready to get loose on the dance floor for a while. And when it’s time to wind down into the ceremony, you can scale it back to whatever vibe you want as a background for your I Do’s.