Because of the high value Lao people place on family and friendships, your Lao colleagues will have obligations and responsibilities which will require them to miss work from time to time. Expect parents to take time off when a child suddenly falls sick. Colleagues may be required to take meals to hospitalized family members during the day. Westerners are accustomed to a wide circle of friends who change over time. Once established, Lao people will maintain friendships forever. Friends are expected to share in most aspects of each other's lives. The responsibilities and obligations might be considered onerous to a Westerner.