When you get to know someone all their physical characteristics start to dissapear. You being to dwell in their energy. Recognized the scent of their skin. You see only the essence of the person not the shell. That's why you can't fall inlove with beauty or looks. You can lust after it, want to own it. You can love with your eyes and your body but not your heart. That's why when you really connect with a person any physical imperfections disappears and become irrelevant