Hey..... I sure think of u babe...... I think that u just worry too much about it..... take it easy and relax.... same Tony here.... did u hear about the masacre at Orlando, Florida?... that has been very hard to swallow and understand to me..... Im afraid it means we aren't safe in almost any place.... I would understand if u are already getting tired of waiting for me..... I wouldn't blame u if u are.... but u need to understand also how difficult would be for me to quit working, get rid of my apartment, close all service accounts, get rid of my car, etc, and come up with a final plan to relocate for good.... I have always thought that previous to make such move, it would be very convenient for both of us if we meet first and spend some days together giving ourselves the opportunity to mingle, talk and find out how much chemistry exist between us.... and how easy or difficult would be to deal with our cultural differences.... among them, language is my main concern.... we have not been able so far to agree on where to meet.... so, if we agree that a first meeting is necessary I wouldn't need to start any moves until we have such first meeting..... since I don't want u to quit ur job until and after that first meeting takes place, then I won't be able to see u for more than a weekend in Bkk so u can keep ur job.... or visit u at ur present location and meet u after ur work hours.... and that would be a trip I would have to make just by myself since u won't seem to be able to meet me someplace in America without quiting ur job first, something I don't want to be responsible for... at least until we decide if we would finally move together.....read this well and let me know ur feelings about it..... hugs....