Share ideas yes but in every relationship one person is more dominate. Sometimes it is the man sometimes it is the woman. I know if i marry i want a wife that accepts i more dominate. I will always listen and discuss but in the end there must be a decision. It is the captain that makes the final decision. If you can accept me as the captain of the marriage i want to know you better. If you can not accept me as the captain i understand and i will wish you good luck and both of us can continue our search to find a different person. I hope you can accept me as the captain