My wife and I are very good friends, but we are like brother-and-sister, not lovers. Ten years ago, she became an evangelical christian, and I am not religious, so it is an emotional barrier between us, a wall in our intimacy. But we are really good friends, we never fight, and we love our kids, so we will not separate. Sometimes I miss the passion and intimacy, but I am also very busy, and I have many other enjoyable activities