we all have to ask for favors sometimes. But it can be a difficulf thing to do - even when you ask a good friend. So how can you ask a favor and be reasonably sure to get a positive response? Here are some suggestions.
Be a nice person
When you ask someone for a favor,you're really asking the person to go out of his or her way to help you. Show the person that you understand he or she is doing something espercially nice for you. If people think you're pleasant,they're more likely to want to help you. And, of course, a smile goes a long way.
Choose your word carefully
how do people respond to requests like this one: "Hay,Mike,lend me your car?" They probably refuse. How car you avoid this problem? Choose your words carefully! For example,say,"Mike, would you mind doing me a favor?" Mike will probably respond like this : "Maybe. What do you need?" Now you have his attention and can explain the situation. People are more likely to agree to help you when they know the whole story.
Give and take
If someone agrees to do you a favor,allow the person to choose when he or she helps you. Be respectfut of the other preson's time,and try not to ask for too much. If someone refuses your request,you should accept the answer politely. Don't make a habit of asking for favor, and always make sure you're ready to do someone a favor in return. Reciprocate. It's just a matter of giving and taking.