Hello Som, today I am as sad as I've been in a very long time. I wish your father would understand our culture like we are trying to understand yours. I think he thinks that in America everybody has a lot of money. We work hard just like you. It takes a lot of hard work and a very good business to make the money the he wants for wedding. Most people here would have to work many years to save the money your father ask for. I am lucky because I have my own business and it is a good business. I make more money than most people make. But to pay what he asks in such a short time is still very hard even for me. I know your father say he only want you happy and he don't want to sell you. But I tell you this Som that if he truly love you he would not worry so much about how much money I bring, only how much love. Because I love you so much but it is not enough to marry you, I have to have money first. Maybe someday you will be my wife? And maybe at that time you will see things different. It is sad for me because I wanted to be friends with your father but it is hard to be friends with someone who make life so hard for you. He only thinks of today not of tomorrow. He should think of all the years in the future that we would be together and all the family and children we would have together. But I understand you love your father so much, you believe in him more than you believe in me. But I wonder how our future will be now. Now if your father not change his mind I have to cancel the plane ticket and lose that money. I lose over 70,000 baht. In America non-refundable. You cancel you lose. So soon I will know your answers for everything. And you will know mine. I too like your father told everyone we marry April 6th. So now family, friends, and customers will ask me why we not marry. In America I can not tell them the truth about money , if they think then they not believe in you when you come here. They only think you come for money not for love. So I will have to tell them story and tell everybody that maybe your father sick and can't do wedding now, have to wait until later. But I do not like to lie to anyone. I pray to God for forgiveness but what can I do? I want everyone to love you like I do. So now I don't know when we marry in future. Tell your father I am sorry I am not rich man and that I am just hardworking man like him who fall in love with sweet Thai girl. I hope in the future he will see I am just a good man who love his daughter. I hope that your father will get better soon. Wishing you a good night, Timmy.