A person should never make an important decision alone. Important decisions should be well
thought out. People who know you well, know what is best for you. People close to you can give
you good advice, give you a different perspective, or share their own experience.
When I had difficulty deciding which classes to take in college, I talked to my teachers and
advisors. They had the knowledge and expertise to help me determine which classes were the best
ones to take for my future career. Without their advice, I might have chosen unsuitable courses.
In college, I had convinced myself that I was not good enough to act in the school play. Therefore,
I decided not to audition even though drama had always been my passion. The day of the
auditions, a friend of mine asked me why I wasn't auditioning.
When I told her I didn't feel I was good enough, she was shocked. She was able to provide me
with another perspective on my talents and myself. I rethought my decision and tried out… and
got a lead in the play.
Last year when I was trying to decide whether or not I should study overseas, I talked to my
friend. This was the best thing I could have done. This was a big decision for me because I had
never been overseas on my own and I wasn't sure I could do it. She had studied overseas the
previous year. She told me about the challenges and opportunities I might encounter and helped
me make the right decision. I went and it was amazing!
Whenever I am faced with an important decision, I seek advice from others so that I am well
informed and have the benefit of their perspective and experience.