And when that happens, it’s better for you to be as far away as possible from the epicenter of the explosion in order to not be hit by the blast wave. Because to admit that ’I was the reason for everything that happened in my life’ is really, really hard. As a rule, someone who is always there for us becomes the main reason for all our failures. Or alternatively it’s someone who we used to be close with. But it will take a long time for another person to understand with whom everything bad in our lives really begins. And only provided that this person is ready to understand it.