Ask them what they need. If you’re worried about someone and you
want to be there for them, just ask them what they need– that way you
know what they find helpful during tough times, and you can be there in
a way that’s most useful to them.
Get physical. Smiles and hugs are a great way to show friends that
they’re not alone, that you’re there for them, and that they are important.
Keep in touch. Even if you guys aren’t nearby each other, making an
effort to keep in touch through facebook, emails, texts and calls will
show your friend you are there for them
Tell them how you feel. You don’t have to make a big deal of it all the
time but sometimes there are moments where letting someone know
that they’re important to you through something you say, can make
a big difference to how someone is feeling.
Get the facts. If your friend has a medical condition, or a mental health
issue, a good way to offer support is to learn about what they’ve been
diagnosed with. Taking an interest in what they’re going through shows
that you care, and that you’re planning to stick around no matter what’s
going on.
Be willing to make a tough call. If you think the safety of your friend is
at risk, you might need to act without their consent and get help (see the
sidebar for where you can seek help). It can be a hard choice particularly
when you’re worried about their reaction, but remember that you are
acting because you care and you don’t want them to be hurt.
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