Hi Nidnoi,
You are a really nice person and I hope you will believe me when I tell you that I am sorry I offended you. My intent was that we had good communication and that we were honest with each other so that we both knew what to expect and weren't disappointed in our meeting.
I recognize that we should know each other better before I asked the questions I asked you. However, there simply isn't enough time for me to do that. I need to plan my trip and decide who to meet in the next couple of weeks. So I feel I had to ask you those things.
You have my sincere apologies for offending you. I hope we can be friends, although not bf and gf. If I can ever help you with advice about American men or answer any questions about perhaps living in the US, write to me and I will answer them as best as I can. I think it's best that we just be friends and I hope you will be my friend.
I wish you nothing but the best and I hope you find exactly the right man you are looking for.
Best regards,
Jack