The following is a checklist to help you determine when it's time to move on. Just ONE"warning sign"is enough reason to break up You shouldn't put up with an abusive partner. There is never an acceptable excuse for a partner to hurt you with words or actions You dont have to tolerate any verbal or physical abuse. You should not accept common excuses like I just had a bad day at work i'm under of stress!' "I'm really sorry I promise l won't do it again!" You should think carefully before giving a person a second chance. Your partner should respect your opinions decisions, morals and values. He or she should support you and encourage you to reach your goals and dreams. If your partner has a problem with alcohol or drugs, you had better not believe that you'll be able to change his or her ways. You ought to have time for yourself, your family, and your friends. Your partner shouldn't be possessive and take up all your time and energy. f you can't trust your partner if you think that he/she lies or cheats, if he/she makes you feel unsafe, then you'd better listen to your instincts if you no longer enjoy time together, if you don't respect each other, or if you can't be honest with each other, then it's better to be on your own than in a bad relationship.