At Chyaphum - thinking that these quaint innocent places are where a lot of the bar girls come from-Reminds me of two nights ago sitting with Tim in a bar and two girls sat with us-one said she was 22-very confident with her body but still a baby - the one next to me had no social confidence around us what so ever-I was trying to work out if she was handicapt or just different - she said in Thai she was 31 and came from essarn somewhere. We bought them drinks and the one beside Tim started massaging his hand as a joke then the one next to me followed suit-very un-comfortably. I tried to say in Thai-relax.I'm your friend. She said it was her first time in Jom Tien and had been there 2 weeks. Then she started lifting her dress at the front - underneath it was jean shorts and underneath them hanging out - hot pants. Poor girl-looked like in practice for nasty big go-go bar-maybe no clue what she's up for I bought her 2 drinks,tipped her. hugged her and said goodbye. As I walked away, I heard the others say in Thai-"that's how to do