Advantages & disadvantages of having a boyfriend
Love is something very special to human. Everybody needs love. It comes from friends, family, lovers, or just acquaintances around us. But love between boyfriend and girlfriend is a thing that people care quite the most, and I am one of those people. Unfortunately, I haven’t had a boyfriend yet. However, as a 20 year-old person, I think I could realize what I’ve got when having a boyfriend even though I haven’t got one.
Have you ever wanted to walk along the street, hand in hand with someone in the rain? A friend can hold your hands, walk along the street but cannot hand in hand walk under the rain. A boyfriend can. That’s all I want to say. We all have needs. One of the needs is to express and to share our love to somebody, especially the person we love ofcourse. Therefore, having a boyfriend helps you the most in this need. Being a girl doesn’t mean that you don’t need to take care of someone or act different from what you want to. A girl sometimes wants to care, to encourage, to give advices, to hug, to go out and many things else. Who would apply to all those needs? To me, that is a person who I love and he loves me back, I called him a boyfriend. I always think that life would be so wonderful and amazing when you could do anything you want. But it would be more wonderful and amazing if you have someone to do everything with. How great it is when suddenly you want to go to the cinema and your boyfriend appears one second after a call, go with you, buy you some popcorn and a coke, laugh with you and listen to all your opinions about the movie even they are the most poo shit he’s ever heard. All of these are what you could do to your boyfriend but what could he do for you?
A boyfriend is a person who always is ready to listen to you whatever you say. He understands and concerns about every corners in your mind. He could offer you a warm embrase whenever you need and never complains how trouble you are. He has a shoulder for you to lay on when you’re blue. A boyfriend makes you feel so special even if you are the most normal person in the world.
People said that two souls connected as one is the most powerful thing in the world. I would believe it was right. It would be so lonely when you live in this life all alone, so happiness is when you found a half of yours. Because of that, when you found each other, you’ll never want to stay apart even in a minute. Then you would do everything together include studying, playing sports, creating or working. 2 brains work at the same time always better than one. And you always have an motivation to do anything you want. That’s the reason why there are many couples succeed together.
Having a boyfriend is so fantastic, but as anything that run the world, as the sun goes round the earth, it always has two sides. If someone is there for you all the time, that means you have some responsibilities to this person. One of those is that you’re no longer a free person. Your boyfriend is special and he deserves to be treated special. You cannot hang out with any of your other boy friends as usual as you used to, or so close. And sometimes when you have someone for your own, friends around you wouldn’t treat you as they used to. They could be a little distract or ignore you a bit. Besides, it would be great when you are just the way you are in your boyfriend’s eyes, but it could be worse a bit when someone have to change themselves to fit to their boyfriends. If they’ve changed, they could change something really really good of them that they haven’t ever known.
Everyone is afraid of loneliness. Why not? It’s so terrible. That’s why everybody needs somebody. May be you don’t need any boyfriends in your life. But getting through a tough life with a boyfriend is a great adventure to me. Everything has advantages and disadvantages, but love doesn’t count them all. So just do what your heart tell you to do, I think it would be so great when you found a person as your boyfriend.