The bigger question, however, is why do people rush into a relationship so soon after leaving one? And while both men and women are guilty of that, more men say "I do" again after divorce. and they're quicker to say it, too, according to the recent Census report "Marital Events of Americans: 2009." Perhaps not as quickly as actor Mark-Paul Gosselaar -- he proposed to ad executive Catriona McGinn in August, just three months after his divorce from Lisa Ann Russell was finalized -- but certainly fast enough for people to wonder, why in the world do you want to get into something you just got out of?
For Emily V. Gordon, a therapist and Huffington Post blogger, it may because men don't have the sort of support women do post-divorce: