The real Confusion is the one you're creating by not keeping your mouth quite about your personal life. You go telling one person after another about us. Just like last night, do you really expect me to talk about us while eating dinner with nine people. I don't know about you, but i was raised by a family that taught me about the importance of privacy...after all, "a silent tongue makes a very sound mind". In simple english, "the less you talk, the smarter you're"! Look around you even among those you call friends, who talk about their personal life like you do, anyone?! I'm sorry, but you make me feel as if our relationship is in an open market for all to see. I'm a very private person and i hope you understand that. I do not like any unnecessary attention in my life ok. I do love you, and i hope you understand that life is not all about you 24/7. Please grow up ok. There are things i do not like and if and when i'm to tell you that i do not like something, i hope you respect my wish instead of totally ignoring me and continuing doing what it is that i do not like. In that way, you make me feel that you have problem respecting other people's wishes and that's scary indeed. I do love you, so i guess the rest is up to you. I think you just want to have a man that you can control like a puppy...but be careful what you wish for ok. For one, "a controlled man is a very weak man". And from the looks of you dear, that's surely not what you want...and i'm 100% sure about that. So you think please.