She changed as a person. We had built a life based on our 2 incomes. She gave up on us and then quit her job. After she planted her fat ass on the sofa and kept spending our money she then charged up all of the credit cards. In the end I was doing everything around the house, all the yard work and working full time. In the last year she wouldn't even get off of the couch to come to bed with me so that is when I gave up try and left.