Mam, I will, I'll try and keep in touch very often. I just hope he will answer me. It's very hard to stop doing all of those things, but I know Josh can if he wants to. He can do anything he puts his mind to. I know he doesn't want to lose you so I think he will try his best. You are good for him, just keep him busy with good things and make sure he understands you will not tolerate him drinking at all and no drugs. If he stays away for all of that he will be a wonderful mate and he has so much to offer. He is a very good guy when sober. And he is very smart too. Just not to smart when it comes to the abusive things. I'm praying for both of you. I will try each day to write him. I was trying to give him space but now I will just write all the time. Thanks for telling me that. We do love him and support him. We will try and make the trip there to visit as soon as this house is done. Have a great night.