If you hesitate whether to write to me: write.
There is also one thing I absolutely admire in whoever I am talking with. That important thing is to put your input in conversation. So... I really love when my interlocutor gives me something to go on with conversation: asks me questions; spins a tales of his own as a response to those of mine; etc. – and, as the rule of thumb, I'd rather you give me your average thoughts on some matter than unusually wise silence.