Do you believe for one moment that my son [ prime Minister Lee Hsien loong ] , and before him Goh Chok Tong,my son is 53 years old, 54 coming on to, hasn't a mind of his own, he needs me to whipper how to answer, how to plan the future? He didn't need me to decide his career, he chose to join the SAF [Singapore Armed Forces] on his own, he chose to go into politics on his own, discussing it with Goh Chok Tong, who was Minister for Defence. He asked me. I said, 'think it over carefully '. In '84 he had just lost his wife; w ong died in '82. I said, you're going to make it very difficult for yourself,getting another wife,because he had two young children. This is not a joke. We are not running this for ourselves. If we were,Singapore wouldn't be what it is.