I think you are good as a woman! However, I do understand your point. Yes, I have heard the phrase you mentioned. Certainly its true. I should add another thing to my "bad girl" list. Doesn't understand the relationship between man and woman. I think this has to be with some of the things you wrote, like the phrase, and love vs lust. Men can be predatory by nature toward women and it smart for women to avoid guys that are too predatory. For example, its hard to build a life with a woman that is distracted by every guy who tells her she is beautiful (because he is trying to get "something" from her). So, do you think you understand the relationship between man and woman?