so in this video we're gonna be talking about socialization for me. starring our new unit on what makes you you why do you have the personality that you do what you wear the clothes that you do it like the music that you like and happy friends that you have what makes you you are you really individual do you really choose who you are or deciding mood you into the person that they want you to be that's what we're gonna be answering in this unit poker site I'm excited let's get started so here are terms to know just two basic ones the idea nature and nurture we're going to talk about the nature versus nurture to bait today and I'm sure you heard that before now for so we have to do is we have to be blind personality you is here that on TV shoes right he has a great personality well what is the personality personality are the behaviors the how to choose the believes and values up an individual that is what makes you you what you believe what you value attitudes towards everything's and your behaviors make up your personality and you are absolutely unique in your purse now there's another person who has exactly the same behaviors that usually is valued you there are people that are very very very similar but there is no one like you know what has your exact same personality as much as you might want to think that back I just get you completely that's not true you have your own distinct personality now the question becomes what defines a person's personality what creates person I what's that the best influence up personality so some people make its heredity which is basically your jeans when you are conceived you get a DNA coding that DNA code says with your shot I am or you are gonna be an athlete you're gonna be a great public speaker or you're not gonna like spicy food that already is wanted by the exactly what your personality is going to pay others see it nurturing your social environment it's the imports have your family and your friends and your school and your upbringing that define your personality not your jeans now this debate is going back and forth and back and forth and hear the arguments for ball people who say nature nature you're ready your jeans map your personality point2 instinct that there are certain things that we do just because we do
that work talk to us that we didn't get my parents are friends whole fight or flight thing wherever and a situation me the runaway every bite that's just in think that's just part who we are nurture people go to the workers Ivan Pavlov he wants you see if he could condition his dogs to salivate when he rang a bell so what you would do BC go out to his old dog house the feed the dogs need every time would be the dogs and dog a topic they were hungry then all you do is you feed the dogs and when he did give he gave the dogs he rang a bell dog salvi as the scene who they hear the bell that he took the food away and when he rang the bell dogs salivate because they would thing who this coming so proponents nurture look to the experiments a no don't know who we are can be molded and condition by the environment around us now is it a law of nature or all nurture answer no it's available but how much has been debated for a long time now one very interesting experiments on that involved Harlow and his monkeys on Harry Harlow launched do a test to see how important is up family to a newborn child so he took a monkey and six to twelve a hours after they're born they took it from a smaller and what they did was they gave it easy to baby mothers one was made wire and had food and one was made up claw and had so and then they just saw what this baby did what will this monkey be able to do what all this money become if you take away it parents what they believed was the monkey was only going over to the old wire looking for food one hour a day everything else was with the claw mother hung on to the claw mother then after his moms have grown up they release them and this is what they found the monkeys that nicely it had very strange behaviors they were able to go along with the monkeys they were very aggressive they were very bad parents someone actually kill their own children they didn't know how to interact with other monkeys because that never been taught to that and even though they are reintroduced they were able to still pick up those norms up monkey behavior they're actually rejected by other monkey so this is what this this proves that there are time periods in a person's life where who they're with what they were doing matter greatly into their personality and that there's a critical time for you develop your personal life for you develop who you are mostly that's when you're very young and this idea society make you who you are family friends media that socialization so this experiment for there you really need to have society around you make you active and make you valuable in a society so that you don't you get injected so after all that what really influences