Mickey,
I thought that I would start this email early and work on it as I have time.
Thank you so much for the really nice message. I value and appreciate your openness. I want you to always be direct with me.
I wanted to ask you, you mention that your tastes are more European than Thai. Do you distinguish between American and European? What I mean is, do you see them as similar or very different?
I like how you feel about expressing our affection for one another. I think that when people see us together, they will know that we are definitely together as a couple and are happy. I want us to be one of those couples that other people look at and say, "I want what they have".
I am impressed that you are so independent. I think that you have done well for yourself and you should be proud.
I'm glad that you will not be shy with me. We will be able to experience so much more this way.
I agree with you that we should have a valid marriage. It would be important to me as well.
Mickey, you share your concerns with me about me looking at other women. If we become married, it will be because I no longer desire other women and that you are the only one for me for the rest of my life. You should know that since we met, I have not seen other women. I am very interested in you and want to really get to know you. You put it very nicely about being number one in mind and body.
You asked me about my opinion of ladies from Thailand before I met you. To be honest, I don't think that I have ever met a woman from Thailand before. I have worked with a few men before but they did not speak English so we had limited interaction. They seemed polite. I have met a few women from Vietnam when I lived in Texas. They worked in the mall so they had to be nice since they were trying to sell things.
I understand completely about women that try to take advantage of men on the Internet and only want money. It is in no way limited to Thailand. This has been a concern of mine.
Mickey, I am glad that I have met you. You have created an awakening in me and I am so very interested in you and the life that we will create.
Mickey, communication is so important. I do not think that our language differences will ever be a problem. I actually believe that it will help us to communicate better. It will force us to be much more aware of what we are saying to each other. When we do have misunderstandings, it will force us to discuss that particular issue more. So eventually, we will have greater understanding. So never worry about our language differences. I think that it is a positive thing.
There are three areas of a relationship that can lead to serious trouble if they are not discussed ahead of time and we are basically agreed to. We should come to an understanding as it were. These three areas are, how will children be raised, how money will be managed, and sex. We are both adults and are looking to make this as successful as possible. We have both been married before so we know how problems can occur. I know that a successful relationship takes work and attention. To me, a relationship is like a flower garden, if it is taken care of, it can be so very beautiful. But if you ignore it, weeds can grow and over take the flowers and they can wither and die.
So as we continue to write to one another, I would like for is to discuss these three issues as well as anything that you think is important. It's ok if we start off not agreeing on something, we just need to eventually agree. So I am open to discussion as always. Our success is most important.
Mickey, it is important that we share our desires and passions with each other. That way we can more fully realize our desires. So it is important that we be able to express ourselves to each other openly. So never be afraid to tell me the things that excite you and please you. I want you to have these things. I never want you to feel like you are settling for less than you deserve.
I want us to always speak openly with each other.
This last message that you sent to me was very nice and I feel that we are finally opening up with each other. I want to remind you that it is impossible to offend me so you can tell me anything.
Good night for now.
With love,
Jerry