l don't want to quit my job to become someone's slave, says Dr. Kitade. In the past, women looked for husbands who could offer Sumi Kitade financial support. Now, women are looking for something different. Kaoru Abe, one of Dr. Kitadescolleagud,is 34. She is looking for a husband who will look after children and share the housework equally. She says she has nothing against marriage. She just hasn't found the right man yet. If her ideal man is out there, she will be very happy. And if he isn't, she says, shell be happy on her own.