Attending a wedding Wedding celebrations vary a great deal, depending on religion, preferences, and finances. In the past, the bride's parents paid for the wedding, but today the groom's family often shares the expenses. often the bride and groom pay for their own wedding, especially if they are older and have good jobs. There are two types of weddings. A civil ceremony takes place at the city hall The other type which is a religious ceremony is performed by a religious leader usually in a church, synagogue, temple or someone's home. Many people still prefer a traditional church wedding which can be held at any time of the day. Most weddings are held on Saturday as it is convenient for guests and doesn't interfere with regular Sunday church services. Invitations are sent advance and gifts are usually sent to the couple before the wedding. People seldom give money as a gift Friends of the bride often hold a"showers" or sometimes called a"hens party" for her where she receives many gifts. Male friends hold a"stag party" which is traditionally wild with lots of drinking On the wedding day, the groom wears a suit and goes to the church with his best man. They wait for the bride inside the church near the altar. The bride dresses in a white dress and veil and carries a bouquet of flowers. It is traditional for the bride to wear"something old, something new, somethin owed, and something blue She is accompanied by bridesmaids. A special friend will be the matron honor. Sometimes there is a flower girl who carries a bouquet of flowers. The bride walks to the altar with her father and is iven away" groom. There is a short ceremony where rings are exchanged. Finally the minister says now pronounce you man and wife," and the couple kiss. Legal papers are signed and the bride and groom lead the wedding party from the church Outside the church, guests throw confetti tiny circles of colored the bride and groom. Rice may also thrown as a symbol of fertility. The couple in a car decorated with paper flowers and streamers and After the wedding, a reception party is held. Guest are by the bride groom and their parents. is greet There a meal followed by speeches. If the guests begin to tap on their glasses with a fork or spoon, the bride and groom must stand up and kiss each other, or their parent.