7. Some freshmen aren’t emotionally ready for college.
Even students who are academically prepared may be overwhelmed by the prospect of so much independence and responsibility, or daunted by the demands of schoolwork. “I think the biggest problem for me is that college is the beginning of adulthood, and I’m just not ready to grow up yet,” confesses one student on College Confidential.8
If you’re a parent, talk to your college-bound freshman about his or her worries. If you’re a student, talk to your parents, and don’t hesitate to talk to counselors and resident advisors. Also remember there’s no rule that says, “Proceed immediately to college after high school, do not pass Go.” Taking a year to do other things may be the right decision for you.