6. Put the mood in mood lighting. This trick is so simple and so effective that it’s a mainstay of weddings now, but it’s never been more appropriate than at a reverse wedding. Use mood lighting to put everyone in the right mood for every part of the night. For arrivals, soft amber or rose light makes everyone look fantastic. Let it get darker for the dancing so everyone can dance like nobody’s watching. Then slowly bring the lights back to a warm candlelight effect for your ceremony. Even the tears in everyone’s eyes will look better.