Identify good personal qualities. What makes a "good" person? Different people have different ideas about what makes someone good, but there are a few traits that most will agree are desirable traits to have. Develop your own list of qualities you want to work on to become someone others look up to.You may determine that "good" means having integrity, being reliable, and being honest.Some see goodness in humility, generosity and kindness.The ability to empathize with others and be nonjudgmental is another way to be good.