Thank you for your text messages in Line. I thought I would simply email you as it is easier than writing in Line sometimes.
I understand you, don’t worry. Some Thai girls don’t care so much about age and are looking more for deeper qualities of integrity, honesty, intelligence and goodness. My last 2 Thai girlfriends were 29 and 33, very very beautiful and kind and both wanted to marry very much. But I wanted someone with deeper qualities, more spiritual maturity and intellectual maturity. Sometimes we just have to keep looking.
I would be glad to be like a big brother to you as I know you are a very good person. What attracted you to me was your spiritual qualities and family oriented qualities. As you know in Thailand beautiful girls are everywhere and very easy to meet. But beautiful only goes so far, then in 1 year, 2 years, 5 years you get down to what that person is about - their non physical qualities of goodness, kindness, generosity, etc.
Just be very careful Sil in trying to meet a farrang guy online. I know from experience, my friends and my friends that live in Thailand - western men come to Thailand for 2-3 reasons - to meet as many girls as possible and have fun or to work but not live there for a long time.
To meet a “cute” guy that is 35-45 that wants to live all the time in Thailand is very hard to be honest with you. There is simply not enough cultural diversity and societal diversity for most younger guys. What you find are older men in the 60’s and older that like to retire there because it is cheap and the weather is nice.
For me I would not be looking for a younger lady other than the fact that I want children. Most men my age have children already and are not interested in this. So this is my challenge and I know I will find that amazing girl in time. Hopefully we met for a reason and we can help each other in this effort to meet that special person for each of us. :)
I’m always here for you to ask questions of, if you meet someone and need to know from the perspective of a Westerner and someone that has a lot of dating experience.
Finally, if you do want to meet a farrang - just be absolutely sure they are a real Christian and have Christian qualities. Because then you will know their motives are generally good and they are truly looking for a life partner. Without that, the chances of them being a “one” woman man is not very good. They will most likely want to have many many girls.
Thanks again for your honesty and I will pray each day for you and your mom.