datling? if you cant accept that you cant go to my room, then no problem, we will never meet. When you decide that a hotel is okay or your room is okay then message me again. You need to go my room for what? To see if I have a wife? a girlfriend? a boyfriend even, or maybe you are some crazy girl who is going to keep turning up at my condo uninvited. I don't know you well enough to let you go to my room. Possibly the same reason why you don't want me to go your room. Hotel first time is better.