You, the bride, will position yourself on the left and your groom on the right.
You and your groom may or may not be expected to kneel before your elders as you serve them tea.
Always serve the male elders first as a sign of his superiority.
Parents of the couple are the first to be served, followed by their relatives based on their seniority in the family.
Remember to address the relatives by their formal titles (fifth aunt or second uncle, for example). If you’re not sure, do clarify before the ceremony begins.
In return, your elders should gift you with red packets or gifts as their blessings. However, any unmarried older sibling is exempted from presenting a red packet for you and your groom.
Both your younger siblings and cousins will serve you tea instead, and you will present them with gifts or red packets.