I was born into a “happy” family that was actually a web of lies, which unfolded itself through a divorce. My parents’ marriage was based on the fact that my father needed a permanent residency card to stay in the United States. Some people may view this as a devastating event; however I have chosen to embrace being an American and a Ghanaian. Coming from two different backgrounds was a challenge, because of the different values and morals each share. These challenges have left me to understand my true purpose concerning my two cultures. I feel fortunate enough to grow up with two different aspects on life itself.
Throughout life I was considered to be the “one” on both sides of my families. I was the one who was supposed to accomplish something and make a difference in the world. Pressure was placed on me the day I was born. Despite my parent’s relationship being a lie, I was still born into a supportive family. On the American side of my family, my mother was the first to go to college and complete it. I was automatically bound to go beyond what she had already accomplished. On...