welcome on interpal! Many, many happy moments, conversations and things to learn here, but also keep aware that a lot of bad stuff and scam is going on here. My friend Rebecca from Suzhou, China was one victim. So please keep care how much you tell, what you show and who you trust.
In the moment I am in my hometown Berlin in Germany. Yes, the city that was devided by a wall like North Korea and South Korea. I spent many years in China an I still want to go back for some months. But in the moment a new job hold me back. Before I took my laptop and live in China, stay in some cities for some weeks or months. I will go back to Asia and then ... finally find the ONE and get my dream, red dress, mixed-blood, .. you know. ;-)
So all the best, perhaps I hear your reply. Stay safe!
Bodo