How to tell your friend the big news? When the right time comes and you agree the saying being heartbroken is better than never loving at all, try these tips to tell your best friend you love him or her. Plan on a good time and a nice that you can be alone with your friend Look into his or her eyes and drop the with a superb sentence like I've started like you as more than just a friend'. Don't use the word "love" because it's just too much handle right away and will probably scare your friend off.