1) What you will accept in behavior from and towards yourself
2) Your ability to say either YES and NO to events or statements.
For example..
You know someone who you enjoy being around socially but they occasionally do things that are a matter of a small illegal crime – a result others are hurt in a small financial or emotional way.
While your together they want you to help them out with something that you know is illegal.
Do you help them because you like them even if you would not do this yourself?
Are you able to be comfortable saying No to the request
Your boundary is a much the same as the boundary lines of a property. It is the clear and defined border that surrounds the house with all its treasures (your Self Identity can be thought of as your house or property) . The boundary lines let others know how far the ownership of the property goes. In a personal development sense the boundaries are more difficult to see and be aware of. But in a nutshell your boundary is your preferences or rules you have about things like