If you aren't sure if you want to be dating, then we probably shouldn't. If we aren't married then how would we see each other? I get 4 weeks off a year, 2 weeks before my deployment and 2 weeks after. If you were to stay in Thailand That's only 4 weeks out of the year we could see each other. Our relationship is kind of at the point of either taking the huge leap towards marriage, which is a gigantic step, and hoping that everything works out, or saying goodbye to each other and going our separate ways.
If you aren't sure about this, we will not get married. We must be 110% sure that this is what we want and that it is the right choice. If we are not 110% without a doubt confident this is what we want, then I think we should go our separate ways.
I don't want to have both our lives drastically changed and then have us realize that it's not what we wanted.
Am I making sense or do I sound crazy?