The biggest thing that people overlook in this small situation is that the influence and the publicized actions of Mark's friends are what could have started this mess. Actually, this whole mess wouldn't be happening if it wasn't for Wendy and the rest of Mark's friends to become so SnapHappy and show off to the public. If they had the right mindset, they would have been careful with what they would post, but instead were careless. . I see that everyone is very pressed about BamBam using the N-word, and that's expected. Some go overboard with it though. Just keep in mind, BamBam is being influenced while in America and is experiencing American culture, he is basically immersed into the culture since it's so diverse. The best way is to apolgise, because that's what everyone wants and is the mature thing to do but even if he did, it depends if people are willing to forgive/forget. This has just turned into a bigger mess than it already was. He has stated before at the first show for FlyinLA that he wants everyone to teach him if something he does is wrong so that he won't offend people like when he wanted to do hand hearts/westside sign- but the fans said no (as if those hand signs are even offensive lol) Anyways, BamBam being around Mark's friends who are CLEARLY hella west coast, aren't going to tell BamBam that this/that is wrong. They're just going to say "aw yeah turn up" and have fun. That's how it is in the west and there isn't much anyone could change about the diverse culture here. To summarize it all, they're ALL at fault and ALL were careless with their actions. Though, I do believe this will die down in a few days but JYP has the belt ready.