“BEING A VICTIM FEELS GOOD.” First of all, it doesn’t. That’s why victims often struggle with depression and suicidal ideation. Second, if someone is hurting because he/she has been hurt, it is so helpful to tell them that people don’t care….and that they are really only hurting themselves.
Thanks for adding guilt and shame to a victim’s already existing guilt and shame. You’re an incompetent psychologist who clearly hasn’t worked with real victims, Dr. Grohol.