You may seek partners who are quite dominating and powerful, not so much from a need to be dominated as from a desire for struggle and transformation within a sexual relationship.
If you want this tendency to be sexually useful and not too interfering, you should not express it in your daily life but reserve it for the bedroom, where it can provide much pleasure. When conflict is confined to the sexual arena and ritualized, it can become a tremendous agent for transformation, making sexuality much more than just a pastime. If this is done effectively, it can defuse competition in your daily life, and you can use the transforming power of sexual energy for better self- understanding and closeness.